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Children With Special Needs

Helping children with special needs cope with the situation

In emergencies and wartime, children with special needs, including children on the autism spectrum, may show temporary declines in functioning and even regression in previously acquired skills (sleep, toileting, language, independence, emotional regulation).

Regression in traumatic situations is not a "true setback" but an adaptive response to uncertainty and sensory and emotional overload.

Signs of distress in children vary. You may notice restlessness, withdrawal, tantrums, aggression, or stubbornness not previously seen. Some children report physical complaints (like stomach or headache), may show hypervigilance or increased dependence on parents, and, as mentioned, developmental regression may occur. Changes in eating habits are also possible — reduced food intake or limiting certain foods, or alternatively, an increased desire to eat.

  • Adjust explanations to the child’s level of understanding – It’s important to explain briefly, in simple, concrete language, without overwhelming details. Repeat the same message consistently: the main point is that adults are there to protect us.
  • Use visual aids – Many children need visual anchors like a picture schedule, step-by-step alert routines, social stories, or similar aids.
  • Maintain routine as much as possible – For children with special needs, familiar routines are even more important. Even amid uncertainty, keep daily anchors like set meal times, sleep, and familiar activities. You can create a fixed ritual around alerts – an action before or after (short song, hug, small game in the safe room). These build a sense of control and structure.
  • Regulated parental presence – Children read adults’ emotional states. A calm voice, short clear messages, and appropriate touch convey security even in challenging situations. Take care of yourselves so you can stay regulated and responsive for your child.
  • Don’t stay alone – This is not the time to be alone. Find a friend, neighbor, or family member who can be with you during difficult moments. This also allows you occasional breaks to breathe and recharge.
  • Seek help from regular therapists – If you feel your child needs specific support, contact their regular health, social work, or psychology professionals for guidance and assistance.

Guide for coping in unusual times for people with autism and their families – Ministry of Welfare and Social Security

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